Not exactly sure how I'm going to state this, or even explain it but just bare with me. I want to blog about something that gets under my skin. I usually don't like to discuss about things that urge me to punch walls and commit total destruction around me because I like to think positively and see the good things before I can pick out the bad. But to be honest I see this so much that its pretty much impossible to run away from.

For me personally I'm completely against violence. Its just something that everyone experiences at one point in time and its sad to say but true. Being abused physically, emotionally and mentally is just horrible. I just don't know how people can go around and find some sort of pleasure in hurting someone else physically.
Why? I know there can be reasons for your actions but I'm talking about those people that just go around starting fights and encouraging others to start. I mean don't you feel guilty? I wouldn't be able to live with myself knowing that I hurt someone physically for no reason at all. Its just to cruel. And I'll tell you why you don't feel guilty. You don't feel guilty because you think its okay, normal and its some sort of way to express your anger that's in your system. I don't know what you've been through or what you have seen but that doesn't excuse your dangerous actions.
It just doesn't and it never will. There is a reason why we have laws and punishments in our society that try to control and minimize as much violence as possible so don't try to convince me that fighting is okay and normal. If it was okay you'd be seeing everyone fighting each other at random times in the day and society would be broken because of the fact that there isn't any peace. If you think its okay then your not thinking straight. Go get yourself involved in something that will exfoliate all the negativity in your mind. Its not okay and if you don't see this your clearly blind or have some sort of mental disorder. Seriously think of how your projecting yourself to everyone around you. You just might be losing respect from people that adore you just because you don't know how to
a) control your anger or b) solve your problems. There are more ways to solve issues.
That's exactly why we have counseling, therapy etc.

In conclusion think of it like this, act smart and people will think your smart, dress nice and people will think your attractive, and fight for a joke and people will treat you as a joke.

Ambition is everything. I feel like there are 2 steps to success and it all leads to ambition. The first  one is to set goals. What do you want to achieve? It can be related with school or a personal issue such as losing weight. Doesn't matter what you choice because once you know exactly/specifically what you want to work on then things become less overwhelming. Nothing is worse then wanting to do something but not knowing exactly what you want to do and how to start it so having a goal set is really important.

The last step is just putting in work, work and work. Your going to have to work on your goal if you want to achieve it. Its pretty common knowledge. If you have the mind set of working for what your want then your going to not only achieve your goal but along with anything else in life.

Think about it this way. Lets say you want a new pair of shoes and not just any kind but a specific shoe because we can't be working with every shoe on the market. Okay now that we have that down, are you either going to save up the money for the shoes or are you just going to just wait until someone buys them for you? Personally I'd want to save up my own money to buy something that I want and having that satisfaction of knowing that I put in work  to get something that I feel that I deserve. So which one are you?

Why do girls hate each other? You would think that men would say that about the opposite sex but I've witnessed it on more then one occasion where girls will without a second to logically process what their about to say just bash another girl for no reason sometimes. Twitter is a perfect trap to catch everything in the moment. I've seen tweets like "I hate girls sooooo  much" and of course there's no reason on why that person does. Sure maybe that person did something to you that made you think twice about your friendship or hmm maybe that girl has the same top as you. But if you really think about it, your claiming that you hate girls in general. Why? What has every female in the entire world done to you? Hate is a strong word, don't ever forget that. It isn't something you should throw around like candy. I personally feel like girls should stick together. There's no reason to isolate yourself from your own gender. Remember that as chill a guy can be he could never fully understand how a girl acts and feels. Its the exact same way for us girls. So stop bashing and just be more careful of the friends you pick. Not only are you giving your own gender a bad outlook but your giving yourself a bad outlook.

Happy living. Successful achievements. A life full of joy and kindness.
That's what your going to receive when you have a positive attitude. Having a negative attitude will never get you what you want and never get you anywhere. I feel that you should enjoy every experience that your in and grasp as many opportunities as possible to build  a story book of your life. No reason why you should be sitting upset and without a single spirit of life in you. There's more to life then that, and yes bad things will happen but its your choice on how you handle it.

_    Something that really gets on my nerve is when little girls that should be helping their mom making cookies or cupcakes are craving attentions and affection from men. Why? I don't know because I'm not one of them, and I don't want to be because I feel like I have my whole life ahead of me to worry about something like that. Relationships are suppose to be serious. The point of dating is to find the one person that you can start a family with and to get married. Your 14 years old and your crying about being "forever alone." Do your hear yourself think sometimes? Can you now see why that sounds ridiculous? Unless your looking for a marriage then continue doing your thing girl but if your not then stop crying. Your not alone and never will be because you have family and friends there. Alone? Are you that lonely? Get yourself a diary and a teddy bear instead of someone that can take advantage of your feelings. I'm not at all saying that every man will do such a things but when your 13,14,15 then you can't be surprised.