That's what your going to receive when you have a positive attitude. Having a negative attitude will never get you what you want and never get you anywhere. I feel that you should enjoy every experience that your in and grasp as many opportunities as possible to build a story book of your life. No reason why you should be sitting upset and without a single spirit of life in you. There's more to life then that, and yes bad things will happen but its your choice on how you handle it.